No, they are not related. At least…not that we know of.
I just have a quick question for all you domestic goddesses out there–and just so you know, I’m using the word “goddess” lightly in order to flatter you. You only have to be more domestically inclined than I am to qualify for goddess status, as far as I’m concerned. That doesn’t render the title less meaningful to you, does it? Should I have been less transparent? I just wanted to make sure I was reaching my intended audience, which is Anyone Who Sews With A Sewing Machine At All.
You see, Princess Zurg is very interested in fashion and stuff, and she’d like to learn to do machine-sewing. She already knows how to do basic hand-sewing. I taught her how to do that much because I came of age during a time when Mormon girls were forced to learn a certain amount of needlework if they wanted to go to heaven. I have very limited experience with sewing machines. I used a sewing machine in home ec in the eighth grade, and in 1996 I attempted to sew my own temple dress under my mother’s supervision, and I got half the bodice done before I had to go to an appointment or something, and when I got back, my mother had mercifully finished the whole dress for me. That was the last time I touched a sewing machine. I don’t think I’ve ever had to thread a bobbin, or whatever that procedure is called. I’ve heard horror stories about bobbins. They make me a little nervous.
So I don’t own a sewing machine. What sort of woman am I? I’m not fit to wear the uniform. But the point is moot because even if I were fit to wear the uniform, I don’t have a machine to sew one with. Actually, that’s not a moot point. It’s a very relevant point. I’m right back where I started, in fact. Let’s move on, shall we?
I’d like to get PZ a sewing machine for Christmas, but I have no idea where to start. She’s twelve. She’s easily frustrated. I’m not very bright. We need a machine that will be (relatively) easy to use and not cost too much money (and by “too much money” I mean “more money than you would spend on a twelve-year-old’s very first sewing machine that her 39-year-old mother will only use to the extent that she needs to help her twelve-year-old daughter learn to use it”). It doesn’t need to do anything particularly fancy. (I don’t even know what I mean by “fancy.” I have no idea what kind of fancy things sewing machines can do. But I’m pretty sure we won’t need to do any of them.)
Any suggestions? Advice? Commentary? Criticism? I eagerly await the receipt of your wisdom.
And now I will abruptly shift gears. How about those terrorists, eh? This is just what’s on my mind this morning–sewing machines and all these enhanced security measures at the airports. I don’t fly very often. I fly maybe once a year. Maybe. And generally I don’t get outraged. I only get outraged maybe…three times a year. Miffed and eye-rolly, sure–way more often. But genuinely outraged, that is more rare. But I find this business with the TSA and the pat-downs deeply disturbing.
So these super-fancy full-body scanners–I’m kind of “whatever” on that, personally, because I tend not to worry about things that maybe can give you cancer because the list of things that maybe can give you cancer is so long that worrying about all of them would just paralyze me. As for the modesty issue, I don’t know–my sense of modesty took a serious beating with the birth of my first child, and it’s never fully recovered. But I understand how it would seem invasive to some people–many people, in fact. I can understand people being wary of anything involving radiation and crap. And when the alternative is getting molested by a TSA agent, that just strikes me as basically creepy. Not very American, if you don’t mind my saying so.
As freedom- and privacy-loving as I like to think I am, it’s possible that I could be persuaded to think these were necessary precautions to protect all of us from the terrorists–I don’t like planes blowing up any more than the next person–if it weren’t so blatantly obvious that this crap is just for show. Yeah, a terrorist could be anyone, so I’m not going to argue for patting down a Middle Eastern dude and waving Grandma through. Whoever a terrorist might be, it’s going to be pretty easy for him or her to evade these enhanced security measures. Do we think terrorists are stupid or something? How hard is it to figure out that if you don’t want your bomb detected by a full-body scanner, you either go to an airport that doesn’t have a full-body scanner, or you opt out of the full-body scanner and hide the bomb inside your body, where the TSA is not (yet) allowed to go? Or is the TSA eventually going to start doing random cavity searches? I mean, why not? Better safe than sorry.
And if these enhanced measures are so necessary, why aren’t they being implemented everywhere? You can’t put the new-fangled machines in every airport all at once, but absent the ability to see through people’s clothing, why shouldn’t the TSA conduct random pat-downs at airports that don’t have the scanners? Unless the pat-down is more a punishment for not submitting to a full-body scan than it is an actually-necessary security measure.
Also, with the randomness–it seems to me that if I were a suicide bomber, I wouldn’t be too nervous about being subject to a random security check. If I’m planning to blow myself up anyway, I might be inclined to just take my chances. If they tap me on the shoulder for a full-body scan, so be it. But there’s a pretty good chance they won’t. So why not just go for it? It’s not like I’m sane or anything.
Anyway, that’s what’s on my mind today. Let me know about the sewing machine. Christmas is coming, and so are the terrorists. (I don’t know, I just felt like I needed to tie it all in.)

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November 24, 2010 at 10:58 am
Mother of the Wild Boys
Five years ago I bought my first sewing machine. I got the bottom-of-the-line, least expensive, no-frills $90 White machine from Walmart. It is relatively easy to use (I mean, I sew with it!), and it just barely needed it’s first tuning. Might work for your fashionista.
November 24, 2010 at 11:05 am
philomytha
EXACTLY!!!!!! (on the security part, I know nothing about sewing machines) The only way the scanners would really make flying any safer is if 100% of airports were using them (everywhere in the world) on 100% of the passengers. And even then I’m skeptical. I just saw one of the Mythbusters guys talking about how he accidentally took two 12 inch razor blades through a full body scanner and they didn’t pick up on it. Besides which, the terrorists don’t keep trying the same stuff over and over. The underwear thing didn’t work, move on. They’re off coming up with the rectum-bomb or the spleen-replacement bomb and laughing at our pathetic, humiliating, reactionary attempts at “security.”
And the TSA keeps saying they HAVE to do it to keep us safe. I couldn’t really care less about the scanner for myself, but it weirds me out to think somebody could force me to allow them to inspect my children’s naked bodies or handle their genitals without their or my consent. The TSA apparently has a different definition of the word “safe” than I do.
November 24, 2010 at 11:37 am
Patience
I used to do a LOT of sewing, and I still haven’t mastered the art of buying a sewing machine. It’s not unlike buying a car– top of the line sewing machines cost about the same as a low-end car. There’s financing, the notion that European brands are superior to American. (I don’t think the Japanese have broken into the sewing machine market. I wish they would. A Japanese sewing machine would probably be fabulous.) Everyone tells you to buy a Bernina and then you are be swept into a cult of Bernina enthusiasts. I own a “Janome” which a fast-talking saleswoman bullied me into buying. It performed well for several years, but now it’s broken. I used to own a low-end Pfaff and it was a piece of junk.
November 24, 2010 at 11:59 am
bythelbs
I have no comments about the TSA thing—it just…Bah!
BUT, I believe I can help you with the sewing machine thing. We bought one for our then 10 year old last year for her birthday. It’s a Janome mini sewing machine. I think it’s official name is Janome Sew Mini. Anyway, it got good reviews and it’s not a big investment for a 12 year old wanting to learn to sew. I think they run around $50. Hancock Fabrics has it on sale right now for $40.
November 24, 2010 at 12:23 pm
tawnya
I have a sewing machine that is, well, really good decoration…I use it for quick repairs and to *try* to get better with. I got the basic Singer model (I had the basic Brother model before this…long story) and they were both around $80 at Target. It’s a machine that will do everything you should want, but still basic enough to not break the bank.
November 24, 2010 at 12:41 pm
evitafjord
I sew here and there, but I’ve never bought a sewing machine, only inherited them. Mine is a Kenmore, which I have found to be extremely durable and quite basic – which could also be because it’s about 20 years old. My mom has a Singer that is 30+ and still going strong.
TSA seemingly sudden changes makes me think that either there’s some threat they know about and aren’t telling us (they’ve been allowed to go this far in the past but haven’t, if I’m remembering what I read right, so why now?) or they are just that freaking stubborn in the face of public opinion, which is just as irritating when they do it as when my kids do. Of course, this is one of those things (like pretty much everything) where I’ve only heard and read a little here and there, so I probably shouldn’t comment at all so that I don’t look super stupid. Eh, whatever.
November 24, 2010 at 1:52 pm
foo4luv
I inherited Moo’s Bernina, and it’s totally awesome and no frills. Unfortunately, I don’t have any recs for what to buy nowadays.
I suggest that whatever you buy, you locate a good, cheap repair place. You shouldn’t need it unless PZ has to sew “3 Amigo” costumes for her entire village (“Sew, Maria! Sew like the wind!”) — or until she’s sewn the equivalent thereof, but definitely avoid sending it to the dealership (if you know what I mean).
Go cheap until she learns her stuff. Then you can decide if she’s into it enough to justify a bigger expense for a longer-lasting machine. I’m sure the aforementioned Janome will last long enough to get your money’s worth — especially if you get it on sale.
November 24, 2010 at 6:22 pm
Mommie Dearest
I love my Bernina, but that is way too pricey and too much machine for a kid. I gifted my grown daughter a sewing machine that she was supposed to get from her local Bernina dealer, but she did some reasearch and bought a Janome instead, which she loves. You might also get her some lessons.
All I have to say about security theater is that the TSA is what we get when we hire a politician to do a cop’s job.
November 26, 2010 at 9:40 am
Julie
amazon’s next lightning deal (at 10:00 am PST) is a sewing machine. No details on which yet, but it might be worth looking at.